Published in Lioness (S)explorations·Dec 1, 2020Sex and Self Confidence; 6 Lessons to Learn at Sex PartiesLast summer, after my last relationship ended, a friend encouraged me to revel in my newfound freedom by going to sex parties. Yup, those are what they sound like — parties for sex. But for me, they were much more than that. They were places for me to meet sex-positive…Sex7 min readSex7 min read
Published in Lioness (S)explorations·Nov 14, 2020How to get out of a quarantine sex slumpFeel like your sex life’s been a bit lacking lately (if not outright nonexistent)? Yeah, that’s kind of a thing right now. In a by the app Mentimeter and relationship therapist Vienna Pharaon, 36% of people in the U.S. …Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Published in The Establishment·Apr 12, 2018Member-onlyWhat A Fake ‘Female Orgasm’ Statistic Says About Gender BiasFor years, experts have been peddling a damaging falsehood about the time it takes for cis women to orgasm.Sex15 min readSex15 min read
Published in The Establishment·Mar 5, 2018Member-onlyThe Problem With ‘Feminist’ Sex Products‘If you’re making money off of the oppression of women, that doesn’t seem very feminist to me.’Sex9 min readSex9 min read
Published in The Establishment·Feb 12, 2018Member-onlyWhen I Get Back To My BodyUnlike my initial airy-fairy mirror split, this episode didn’t feel like a mystical revelation.Eating Disorders12 min readEating Disorders12 min read
Published in The Establishment·Feb 1, 2018Member-only#MeToo Has Made Me See Anyone Is Capable Of Sexual Abuse—Including MeNearly everyone of every gender has the potential to be both the violator and the violated.Sexual Assault7 min readSexual Assault7 min read
Published in The Establishment·Dec 11, 2017Member-onlyWhen We Body-Shame Sexual Abusers, We Shame All Those Who Look Like Them And Did Nothing WrongIf we keep acting like sexual abuse is wrong because the abuser is physically unattractive, abusers deemed attractive will get away with it…Sexual Assault7 min readSexual Assault7 min read
Nov 1, 2017Member-onlyEx Dom Revolutionizes Sex Toys, Stigma, And Everything Else In Between (The Sheets)‘Working as domme isn’t really about how to crack a whip. It‘s how to use the power you already have.’Sex6 min readSex6 min read
Published in MEL Magazine·Jun 20, 2017What Sex Is Like on Every Popular DrugMost of them have one thing in common: You probably won’t come — Many people think that taking recreational drugs will help them have better sex. One study in Health Education Research found that 28 percent of British weed smokers ages 16–22 had used the drug to enhance sexual pleasure, along with 63 percent of ecstasy users, 54 percent of cocaine users, 32…Sex7 min readSex7 min read
Published in The Establishment·Dec 16, 2016Member-onlyTo Whoever Called My Hotel Room While I Was MasturbatingEssay4 min readEssay4 min read
